I want to do goals, attainable new year's resolutions because I am good at meeting my goals (to the point of tunnel vision but that's another story). So, with that in mind here is what I have come up with (I may add and/or delete before next Monday) but here's what I have so far and why:
1. Practice self-compassion ( I have to stop being so hard on myself and less depreciating. This will be the most difficult goal but I cannot continue with the way I am right now. I do not want my son growing up thinking its ok to beat oneself up.)
2. Don't scream at my husband (I suck at communicating my feelings so I keep things in and then blow up this actually applies to everyone that I should communicate my feelings more to but I put hubby because the poor guy gets the brunt of it and he's awesome for putting up with it).
3. Be "less humble." I need to be proud of my accomplishments and stop being "embarrassed" by them.
That's all I have for now, and I have to create action plans to so I can start practicing these goals, if anyone has any pointers by all means let me know. Also, let me know, what are your new year's resolutions for 2013?
These are 3 very attainable and self improving goals for 2013. #1... I've known you for 6 almost 7 years (wow i just realized that) during these almost 7 years i got to know the great person you are... now all you have to do is realize this yourself! Your hubby knows this and I know that when your son grows up he will see this as well and will feel proud to have a mommy like you. I know that I`m lucky to have a friend like you.... and no i am not drunk! :) with that said you have come up with some great new years resolutions. i know you can achieve all of them!!
ReplyDeleteMy new years resolutions:
Hmmmm hadn't really thought about any until now, you have inspired me to get out of the conventional resolution list like loosing weight...
1. I need to fallow through with my decisions, goals etc... I always think about doing this and doing that but i never fallow through. then later i regret not doing so.
2. I need to learn how to manage my time better. I`m sure there are some articles i can read to help me out with this issue of mine.
I think this is it for now... what do you think?
*ILI
There's lots of articles and methods out there for time management... just gotta pick the best method for yourself. I like number 1 too. TIme to make decisions :) I know as a Libra that's hard because you can see both sides-but I know you can do it Ili wili :)
DeleteAhhh its the 10th and i feel like my year has just started with being sick since the 30th. OK so resolutions will now be put to practice. I am working on my time management by making a daily to do list. ive noticed that when i have a list i get things done much more faster and it makes it hard to miss a task that i need to get done. And regarding #1 I am still working on it... being that I am a Libra i feel like this will take me changing my entire persona!! AHHHH : / but maybe that` not such a bad thing!
DeleteThanks for the support!! :)
So how is it coming along so far with your resolutions??
*ILI
Ili I just saw you're comment.. I wont like.. I haven't practiced my resolutions but it's a hard two months especially february. On the bright side I haven't been mean to myself either! lol
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